THE ADVENTURE OF UNSUCCESSFUL SUCCESS
Against the backdrop of my
curiosity to know, lead me to scanning of the rèsumè from the doctrinal week
held at Ejigbo some weeks back. My article on this thematic topic was however
triggered by a portion of the talk on youth choice of career. Hence, this
presupposes that this article will be applicable more than not to the terrain of
the young ones.
In
our society as a whole, many if not every person craves to succeed in one way or the other. Success in this pericope can be regarded as
growth. Success however varies from one notion to the other. It can come in
positive way, so also it can occur in negative way depending on the individual
relative perspectives. To say a student who passed his examination succeeded
will be right, so also to say a gang of thieves that went for a robbery
operation succeed will be right in another perspective. At this point, one will
be forced to ask if there is authentic or ideal success.
The
paradox of unsuccessful successes sounds contradictory and impossible.
Meanwhile, it is plausible as it sounds. The youth of today are mostly found
pitching their tent under this falsified prospects successes. The young ones
under this group operate on the pre-notion that ‘the end justifies the means.’
At the heart of this mentality renders the means irrelevant in as much as the
end is procured. An average young boy or if you like man will download
varieties of lies for a lady just to get her for sex. For him, the end success
matters more and not the means. An average lady on the contrary will also long
to secure a boy friend for herself just to feel belong to the prevailing trend.
At this point I wonder the standard for success the ‘now-society’ is setting
for young ones. Indeed, a backup-fired form of success.
In
furthering the aforementioned, some young boys in the society have turned
themselves to young ritualists, however they claim to be yahoo or smart guys.
Today in the society, these set of crooks claim to be most successful amidst
their peers. Their ocean of money and assets has given them the impetus to feel
they are on the top of the world. The
kind of success young ones here portray is obviously pseudo successes. Indeed, one certain fact is that all these things
are contingents. They will go and the repercussions will always back-shoot.
The
pseudo adventure does not in any way exclude those who live a fake life. For
people like this, virtually everything about them is erroneous and deceptive.
They are mostly found in the menace of impersonating during examination,
examination malpractices, bribery, advance gambling and other irony adventures.
One out of the funny things about these people is that they eat and feed on
lies. In fact it has turned out to be their way of life and they think they can
succeed through it. The question however is that, how long can one continue to
live in pretense?
Ab
initio, in one way or the other, everyone is guilty of venturing into realm of
exploring unsuccessful successes but the end will always redefine itself in
form of repercussion in the long run. The paradox of unsuccessful successes is
therefore a form of eroding success that cannot stand the simplest taste of
time.
As
a way of conclusion to this discuss, it will be apposite to redefine what we
often refer to a success. Are they authentic/ideal success or
pseudo/unsuccessful success? The society of today can rarely set an ideal
standard for success for you and I. Hence, personal conviction is very
essential. Any success that one cannot convincingly claim to be the hand pulling
its trigger is an unauthentic one, as well as success bias to moral conscience
is a mere illusion. Hence the most authentic success should be geared towards
attaining an austere reality with the transcendental one.


